
July is a month that I have dreaded like the plague since Cannon & Neely have been babies. That is because in the month of July they have to go spend most of the month with their biological father (BF)....aka their daddy... Luckily this summer I have figured out a way to see them (and have them spend the night) once a week, and we get them one weekend in the month. In the past I go into a deep depression as July nears, but this year it's only a shallow depression. I know that I will get to see them 7 of the 31 days they are gone....and this is GOOD compared to years past. I will also be very busy with a certain newborn! Also in July we have these things planned; a weekend trip to Alabama to introduce Hutch to the rest of the Alabama family, a trip to Tyler to spend a couple of days with Meme and Poppie while we get a new roof, get my hail damaged car repaired, a new crown on my tooth (ugghhh), getting my teeth cleaned, my 4 week postpartum Dr. appointment, lots of morning runs, my Hubby's birthday and 7 glorious days with Cannon and Neely. All of these things should get me through the month pretty quickly! I am by no means ready to see the kids off to superdad's for the month, but being on maternity leave has given me such great quality and quantity time with them this month that I don't think it will be as hard to let them go as it has in the past.
July unfortunately is also a month that the kids don't love either. Cannon starts worrying about July months in advance. I have tried to make deals with their BF to do one week on, one week off, but he has never really been into what is in the best interest of the kids where visitation is concerned. So, weeks before they go we start preparing them. Today we made their posters, these are collages of pictures that they pick out, cut out, glitter, glue and decorate. They enjoy doing them and I think it helps them to have these while they are away. I have also set up an email address for them so family can send them little notes, and I promised to send them a new picture of Hutch every day! They (especially Cannon) are going to miss Hutch like crazy!
Please pray for me, but even more for Cannon and Neely that July goes by quickly, and that they are happy and have a good time. I offered to "babysit" them during the month since I am on ML, but BF insisted that they stay at his house with his wife....aka stepmother. They are two extremely happy and well-adjusted kids that come back from a month away needed a little TLC...and it definitely takes a few weeks for me to get my sweet Cannon and feisty Neely back in the Campbell groove.
Here are some pictures of their collages that we made today. We really focused on pictures of them with Hutch....that is what they wanted, which pleased me! Here is their work.......


